Last week, I shared with you that the best way to raise your one on one rates was to start a group program.

In this episode, I share with you how to know if you’re really ready to work with groups, and what do to if you know you are!

Sign up for the call here: http://blog.anastasianetricoaching.com/groupprogram/

Got your attention, didn’t I?

Good. Because I’m here today not to make you “comfortable”, but to help you awaken.

I believe that awakening starts with seeing the truth. Being conscious is about stepping out from behind the veil of lies that we not only say to ourselves, but each other on nearly a daily basis.

I must say, I’m an expert on lying to myself. I’ve also had a lifetime of experience of lying to others. Over the years, I’ve grown increasingly more honest with myself and others, but I still hold back.

Most of my friends have heard me say this at one time or another, “I say I’m 100% authentic, but the truth is…if you see me OUT OF JAIL you know I’m full of crap somewhere in my life. If I was 100% authentic – I would be locked up for sure!”

You’re probably asking yourself: “So, what do you mean by that – and what’s it got to do with me? Hmmmm?”

Here’s what I mean. I have this loud voice inside that wants to scream sometimes. Sometimes the insane systems and rules we have set up become too much for me to handle. I want to scream: “It doesn’t have to be this way! Things can be better! Wake up and see your power, please!” I actually want to say this in the middle of the grocery store sometimes. (Which is why I’d probably get locked up if I did that : ))

Then, it’s in the way I relate with others. I do this, everyone I know does this. Have you ever thought something you’re not saying? Have you said yes when you really wanted to say no – because you want to “people please?” Said no when you really wanted to say yes because you thought it won’t work or felt scared?

Have you felt awkward or hurt and decide to not speak your truth because you feel like someone’s going to yell at you if you do? Or felt jealous, sad, lonely, crazy, lost – you name it – and too ashamed to tell anyone? (This one is a big one with the people I’ve talked to that are REALLY successful!)

Do you tell lies to yourself? Things like “I’m not important”, “Who am I to do that?”, “I don’t have a big enough list so no one is interested in me”, “I have to wait for the whole universe to line up before I take a step”, or my favorite, “So and so does what I do – only BETTER.”

We ALL do it. I do it too. Everyone I know does it.

The only way to stop this is to make a commitment to truth. Real truth. Say it. Let the chips fall where they may. Free up the energy inside of you that is so busy repressing the truth.

Let’s stop fu*king LYING.

Times are changing, and we’re manifesting FAST. Trust in the universe that if you stand in your truth, you’re unstoppable. That you WILL be supported. That you don’t have to pretend that you don’t act like a bitch sometimes, or that you feel crazy or lost or whatever to have people approve of you. It’s time we dismantle that illusion for good.

In fact, the more you stand in your truth, the more you give others permission to stand in theirs. You become magnetic. Inspiring. Bold. A goddess “force-to-be-reckoned-with” light of beauty.

It’s your time. Today. Try it and see – we love you for who you are. Now. Really.

It’s safe to take off your mask and let the world see you.

Be sure to let me know – how are you going more fully stand in your truth today?

THIS is how I’m standing in mine.

Now, be sure to not miss my video, because I’m sharing with you some stuff on raisin’ those prices, girl. You’re worth it. AND THAT’S THE TRUTH.
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Last week, we talked about making more money with each of the main streams of income that coaches have.
These are :
1. One on one clients
2. Product Sales
3. Group Programs

In this video, I talk about how to make more money with your one on one practice.

Ok, here’s the deal. Right now – you’re playing TOO small. You’re LYING to yourself if you think that people don’t want your gifts. The truth is – you have food, and your people are hungry. Feed them!

Click on the video to watch:

Hello Goddesses……

It’s 2012 – and this is the year to kick some serious ass.

You know what I’m talkin’ about.

I wanted to start you off right in this episode of Goddess Business Tips, by answering the question “Where do I start? I want to stop spinning my wheels and make some money, dammit!”

I hope you enjoy this Goddess – there’s gold in that thar video.

If you’re looking for some tips on building (or tweaking) your website home page, here is your Goddess Business Tip that can help you make a HOT and PROFITABLE website home page!

If you want to go bigger…you’re not alone!

I made this special video for you…

I wanted to write about this to you after having a conversation with a colleague this morning about this very subject.

Us “spiritual types” feel pretty upset with ourselves when we feel this way. We look at someone who may be making more money, or have more people on their mailing list, or maybe we feel that they are skinnier, prettier, happier than us, maybe they have a cute boyfriend or husband and we don’t – the list goes on and on.

We want to feel happy for them. And sometimes we do – very genuinely. But other times, we go there…..

We may ask ourselves, “why them and not me?” – or the big one, “what’s wrong with me?”

Let me first tell you this…you’re in good company-AND-you’re not alone.

I’ve never met a single woman that doesn’t feel this some of the time, so I wanted to offer you a way to “reframe” these emotions when they come up, so they may actually serve you, instead of giving you more ammunition to beat yourself up with.

You see, I believe that everything serves us. EVERYTHING. Even the feelings of being jealous or competitive.

I’ve been on an exploration this year of accepting all of me. Including the qualities and emotions that I find “unacceptable” or feel like if I was a better person – I wouldn’t have them. This is a big reason that I am now talking about this more, the “inner game” stuff that you’ve seen lately.

I’ve noticed that when we say things like “I’m not perfect, and that’s ok”, or “I’m only human”, etc., it puts us in an awkward position of feeling like we have “flaws”. In no way are we ever going to be ok with that. I’m here to offer you this today…

What if you had no “flaws?” What if you were perfect – meaning “whole” right now?

For instance, the jealousy can sometimes be serving us by showing us something that we want. It could be our guidance system saying “hey, that’s what I want!” It could also be a valuable sign of where we may be not feeling powerful, playing small, or doing something that is not a true and authentic expression of our most powerful self.

I noticed years ago when most of the time I was either feeling inferior to someone, or superior to someone. I realized that when I felt small – or was even acting arrogant, that it was my guidance system telling me something valuable. It became an opportunity to step into my power more fully, so I began to welcome these things like a friend who was tapping on my shoulder saying “hey sweet thang – get back into your power girl. Here’s your opportunity to remember what a bad-ass you are, and stand in awe at what a bad-ass everyone else is too.“ (my inner voice is quite sassy!)

This is why I’m doing this program “Awaken Your Entrepreneurial Goddess Within”, because accepting ALL of who we are is how we find peace now. Happiness now. And, we get back to our pure source of motivation and power, which attracts like a big ol’ love magnet.

Give yourself a break today. Look for the opportunity in all that is showing up for you, and for just a few hours, stop “shouldding” all over yourself.

You don’t have to wait to be perfect, or get rid of a thing. Yay for the good news!

If you would like to explore this deeper with me, then you’re invited to join us for a exciting program, and it’s only a $97 investment. I am about 80% full, so if you want to feel better, then sign up today.

OMG I totally love you – all of you – today. Sending you prayers and waves of love, light, and acceptance.

In this video, I share with you one of my favorite ways to attract new clients:

Here are the questions I asked in the video:
Why did you get into your business in the first place?

What were you hoping to do for people?

What is your mission and your purpose?

When you feel as if you are fulfilling your purpose, what would that do for you?

Are you ready to join me for the “Awaken Your Entrepreneurial Goddess Within” Program? Click Here to sign up and get more details

I wanted to share with you a video I did with Tanya Paluso, founder of Tribal Truth, about the path ‘o transformation, middle of the road, and loving your pain….

Here it is…

Love to hear your thoughts, feedback, and comments:

This is the biggest question that I get asked by new entrepreneurs, which is “How to I get other people to promote me, especially if I don’t have a big list?”

In this video, I answer this question for you. This will give you some ideas on how you can go out right away and start connecting with people who would LOVE to promote your work:

I was thinking about something this morning.  The truth of who we are, and how we are all unified.  What we put out there towards another is a reflection of how we feel about ourselves.

So often we visualize our own success, peace, happiness, etc.  However, many of us (including me) have experienced not feeling that way about another.

Have you ever felt jealous, inferior, or competitive?  If so, join the club o’ human.  It’s hard for us to admit, but I don’t know a single person who hasn’t felt one of these things on some level.

I feel like for us to really evolve and become even more conscious, it comes through first accepting ourselves exactly how we are.  Not only the parts of ourselves that we love, but the parts of ourselves that we sometimes deem as “unacceptable” or “unlovable”.

Notice what you tend to judge, because this is a light shining on what you do not accept about yourself.  It’s ok – we all have these parts.  The way to have more inner peace is to embrace all there is.  You can never find peace if you are despising parts of yourself, thoughts that you have, or even those things that you deem as wrong.

Today, I’m inviting you to think of a person that let’s say – pushes your buttons.  Maybe even drives you crazy.

In remembering our oneness, remember that this is YOU.  This person is YOU.

Try this on.  Close your eyes, and think of them.  Feel all the emotions that come up.

As you’re feeling these emotions, love them.  They are pointing you to something that can bring you to a place of peace.  Any time we feel a disturbance or pain it’s life’s way of saying “Hey, look here, I need a little love.”

Now, visualize them happy.  Successful.  In love.  Getting a big fat check in the mail. Having a great time with friends that really love them.

Notice how you feel.  This is you giving love to a part of yourself that really needs some love.

This is a great practice that you can do also with people that you adore.  Visualizing success for another helps you to send out what will come back to you multiplied.

Let me say that again.  Visualizing success for another helps you to send out what will come back to you multiplied.

Leave a comment and let me know how it goes!

Here’s wishing you lots of success – and peace to go with it.

Love,

Anastasia